SNAPSHOT OF MY GRANDMOTHER, 1910 I'm surprised to see you this way, lady in black. I didn't think you ever sat on the grass in that severe skirt and tiny jacket with leg-o-mutton sleeves, not even for your picture-taking husband, who liked to record such Sunday scenes. There is your eldest, my aunt, a serious, wistful face, hair tied back to a great bow on the back of her head. Your arm is around her, the other around my uncle, a proper boy with velvet-collared coat and small tweed cap. His arms are folded, eyes closed In feigned sleep or boredom. To finish this pastoral tableau, the impish face of my mother smiles at the camera from over your shoulder. Straight black bangs jut from beneath a white bonnet; her tiny hands clasp themselves around your neck. Your head is tilted slightly To keep your enormous flower-basket hat from covering her face. You look satisfied but stern. Is there a hint of smile there? Was dignity the style in 1910? If so, Grandpa should have told you of that gremlin face next to yours. It thwarts all pretense of dignity. Lucille Murphy my grandmother is Elizabeth Conley Mollan